Beyond Asking and Thanking

“Pray as you can, not as you can't.”—Dom Chapman Dear Parishioners: Last week I answered a question about prayer. I thought this would be a topic worth unpacking, since we are all called to be people of prayer. When talking about prayer we can remember ACTS. This isn’t the book of the Bible, it is an acronym to remember the basic types of prayer. ACTS is: Adoration: Praising God not for what He does, but for whom He is. Contrition: Telling God that we are sorry for our sins. Thanksgiving: Thanking God for what he has done for us and in us in our lives. Supplication: Seeking God’s assistance for ourselves or others. Whether we are doing the public prayer of the Church or our own private prayer, these are the ways or the how we usually pray. ACTS is what we pray. Some commentators hold that all the ACTS should be present each time we pray. I don’t necessarily agree. There are going to be some times that we include all, some times we include only two or three, and some times that we just pray with one type of prayer. It may be that at a particular time in life one or more of the types of prayer seem more appropriate or fitting. Go with what works or is working for you. What is important is that you pray! In future Pastor’s Columns, I will explore each of these types in greater detail. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor 

“The best bit of advice I ever received about how to pray was this: keep it simple, keep it real, keep it up.”―Pete Greig, How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People Dear Parishioners: When I asked for questions to be answered in the Pastor’s Column , I received the following: How do we pray? As an altar boy in my youth, I would accompany the priest when he served mass at the house for the Carmelite nuns. I wondered to myself “do they spend the day saying the Our Father, Hail Mary etc. over and over?” Surely they do more than that. As an adult now I pray daily but sometimes have a hard time on what to say and what I’m praying for or about and usually end up saying an Our Father instead. Am I being selfish to pray “especially” for someone/thing as they are no more deserving as anyone else? There is quite a bit here. Nuns, especially cloistered nuns do spend their days in prayer. The anchor of their prayer is Liturgy of the Hours , which is available to everyone. (The app iBreviary is an easy access to these prayers.) Admittedly, that’s not all they do, they have daily tasks to do, just like everyone else. They have the ability—I would say luxury—to spend more time than the average person in prayer. They also do private prayer, often praying for requested intentions. I imagine other than prescribed prayers, each nun prays as she finds meaningful. We do our best in prayer. Their life is theirs, unless you’re one of them, it is not your life. Most of us have more time on tasks (work, family, school, home) and less time for prayer. A parent with a couple of young children or a person with a full-time job may not have the ability to pray in the way the nuns do, and that’s ok. Still, we all have the ability to find some time for prayer each day, no one is that busy, When you have trouble knowing what to say in prayer, just say what you can and know that God knows what we need and for what we should ask, even if we don’t. As St. Paul writes to the Romans: In the same way, the Spirit too comes to the aid of our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but the Spirit itself intercedes with inexpressible groanings. (8:26) It is not selfish to pray especially for some people, it is not that they are more deserving of God’s help, but they are more important to us. The “especially” prayer is asking for something for everyone but remembering the intentions important to us. I often say that sometimes we need to pray not so that God hears us, but that we hear ourselves. We need to know we are praying for those close to us because it expresses our relationship with them. Again, even if we pray wrongly, which is hard to do, (unless asking for evil on someone or asking God that my team wins—the outcome of a sporting event has little to do with the salvation of ourselves or others), God knows what we truly need. The bottom line is: pray and let God sort it out! Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor 

“ Hence the Lord's day is the original feast day, and it should be proposed to the piety of the faithful and taught to them so that it may become in fact a day of joy and of freedom from work. Other celebrations, unless they be truly of greatest importance, shall not have precedence over the Sunday which is the foundation and kernel of the whole liturgical year.” – Vatican II, Sacrosanctum Concilium, The Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy Dear Parishioners: It is hard to believe that we are in the last weeks of the Liturgical Year. There are thirty-four Sundays in Ordinary Time, and this week is the thirty-first (wasn’t the 16th Sunday two weeks ago?!)…well, it would have been the thirty-first if The Commemoration of the Faithful Departed , aka “ All Souls’ Day ” did not happen on a Sunday this year. This celebration is important enough in the Church calendar, that when it falls on a Sunday, it is celebrated in place of the Sunday of Ordinary Time. We only have to wait a week for this to happen again; next week The Dedication of the Cathedral of St. John the Lateran in Rome, which is celebrated on November 9 th , and it supplants the Sunday of Ordinary Time. 2025 had a number of feasts and solemnities that were celebrated on Sunday: The Presentation of the Lord (February 2 nd ), Saints Peter and Paul (June 29 th ), The Exultation of the Cross (September 14 th ), The C ommemoration of the Faithful Departed (November 2 nd ), The Dedication of the St. John the Lateran (November 6 th ); and the Church year always closes with The Feast of Jesus Christ, King of the Universe taking the place of the 34 th Sunday in Ordinary Time. The Church Calendar of 2025 had what I believe is the most possible celebrations of other feasts and solemnities on Sundays. It is good that not just the daily Mass goers get to experience these celebrations; these show the depth and variety of celebrations in our Church year. Speaking of replacements, with Julia Rutkowski departing this week, I am looking for someone or some ones—it can be a group of people—to take the lead on coordinating the kitchen hall when there are events like luncheons after a funeral. The task includes keeping track of the paper and plastic items that are used, alerting the staff to cleaning and other issues that need to be addressed. This is an important, but not greatly time-consuming, probably averaging a few hours a month. If you have an interest in helping in this way, please contact the parish office. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor

“ Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.”—Semisonic Dear Parishioners:  Julia Rutkowski , our Business and Operations Manager, has taken a position at another parish. Julia will still be with us into the first week of November. Since Julia came to Holy Spirit in April of 2022, she has done a great deal of good work in updating the parish facilities and shoring up the parish finances. She leaves the parish grounds and buildings and books in a much better condition than she found them. She has also found some cost-cutting opportunities for the parish. We are thankful for the work she has done for Holy Spirit. Finding a new business manager is now a priority for me. I have discussed the position with the Holy Spirit Finance Council and published it on the Diocese of Cleveland jobs available website. Some of Julia’s previous tasks for the care of property are the role of Tony Smith, the Holy Spirit’s and St. Joseph's Multi-Campus Facilities Director. Still, our upcoming renovations and the diocese’s capital campaign, it makes sense that the job is a full-time position. We look forward to having someone in our finance office soon. But now, we say thank you, God bless, and Godspeed to Julia as her service to Holy Spirit comes to an end and she begins new service to the Church elsewhere. Any notes or other expressions of appreciations for Julia can be dropped off at the office. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor

“ The priest is not and must not be a civil servant of the Church. Above all the priest is a man who lives for the spirit for God. This being the case the Seminary is the place where he learns 'to be with Him.’”—Pope St. John Paul II Dear Parishioners: Next Sunday, we celebrate Priesthood Sunday. As has been the custom here at Holy Spirit, we will be inviting a seminarian to speak at our Masses. We welcome Brent Feorene . Brent is a student at Borromeo Seminary, the college-level seminary of the Diocese of Cleveland with St. Mary Seminary being the graduate-level seminary. Brent is from our neighboring parish, St. Ladislas in Westlake. Last year he was one of the first seminarians to experience the propaedeutic year, a year of prayer that includes a casual walk though Spain as the Propadudes (as they have come to be known) walked the Camino de Santiago, a 550-mile pilgrimage. As challenging as that is, the road to the priesthood is no less challenging. The seminary is not just about education like most college and universities. What makes it different is the seminary is about formation. Pope St. John Paul II in his Apostolic Exhortation Pastores Dabo Vobis identified four “pillars” of seminary formation: Intellectual Formation : Coming to know the mysteries of the Faith so as the be effective in ministry, especially in preaching. Spiritual Formation : Preparing a man for a deeper relationship with Jesus and to enter into the life of the Trinity as to live a life of sacrificial love. Human Formation : Growing in integrity, maturity, empathy, and other human virtues. Pastoral Formation : Forming men to be ordained leaders in the Church. This is ultimately the integration of all the pillars of formation. The process can take almost a decade of formation. (I, myself, spent nine years in the seminary from starting as a Borromeo freshman forty years ago [1985] to ordination thirty-one years ago [1994]. Please pray for our seminarians as they travel the long, at times not easy, but at other times joyful and fun, path to the priesthood. You can see this school year’s Cleveland Seminarians on the boards in the narthex. We also have some smaller versions of the posters and holy cards that you can take to remind to pray for these men. 

As they leave, the priest and the deacon venerate the altar with a kiss. The ministers reverence the tabernacle with a genuflection. The ministers leave in the order they entered with the cross, and the candle-bearers going before the deacon and priest. The custom has become that there is a Closing Song. This is not required by the Roman Missal or the GIRM. There can be a closing hymn, an instrumental piece, or even silence. I fully support that the people have been told: “The Mass is ended,” and not “The Mass is ended…but first sing this song.” Still if there is a closing hymn, please stay and sing. If you must leave right after the dismissal, so be it.  Here at Holy Spirit, I have no choice but to rush (almost sprint) if I want to be able to greet people leaving Mass. With our church building, a leisurely procession would have me finding half the people gone by the time I got to the doors. Please stay around until the end of the song-- I’d love to greet you on your way out into the fields of the Lord.

After Final Blessing, the deacon (or priest if no deacon is present) gives the Dismissal. The current forms for the Dismissal are: Go forth, the Mass is ended. Or: Go and announce the Gospel of the Lord. Or: Go in peace, glorifying the Lord by your life. Or: Go in peace. The people reply: Thanks be to God. On Easter, during the Octave, including the Second Sunday of Easter and on Pentecost, there is the Dismissal with Alleluias with the priest’s/deacon’s adding the Alleluia to his part and people adding it to theirs. “Thanks Be to God” is not said because we are thankful that the Mass has (finally) ended. We are thankful that we are sent out.  In the Latin Mass from the Missal of Pope Pius V, the Mass concluded, rather famously, with the words: “Ite, Missa est”. This literally translates as: “Go, it has been sent”, the “it” being the assembly. From these words the common name of the liturgical action we celebrate “Mass” is derived. This is significant. What we have done in church, the Liturgy of the Word and the Liturgy of the Eucharist are meant to be taken out into the world. The congregation having been fed on the Scriptures and the Eucharist take the Jesus they have received in Word and Sacrament into a world longing for Him. We take Him to our homes, work places, schools; to our family, friends, coworkers, classmates; to the poor, the needy, the hurting, and the mourning. This is the point of the action of the Liturgy: we are transformed by Christ so that we can transform the world in Christ. What we do on Sunday should impact on what we do the rest of the week, how we treat others; how we do business; how we drive, everything! We have been sent! THANKS BE TO GOD!

After the peoples’ Amen, the Communion Rite concludes and we move into the Concluding Rites. The Roman Missal allows that if announcements are to be made, they are made at this point. The way we do announcements at Holy Spirit is according to the mind of the Church and her liturgy. My intention for the announcements is that they are to be used for: opportunities for worship, charity, or social gathering. There are some events that come up after the bulletin goes to press on Tuesday, so they need to be announced on Sunday. The announcements at Mass are not intended for alerting of regularly-scheduled meetings. I discovered the real need for the Mass announcements a few years back when we were in the middle of the church window replacement process. I had several active parishioners, when seeing boarded-up windows, ask, “Was there a storm or vandalism?” though the project had been announced regularly in the bulletin. So, I saw that the bulletin was not widely read.  Though the goal is to have the announcements be brief and few, that we don’t always achieve that is a sign of the good things happening at Holy Spirit!

The last act of the priest at the Mass (if there is not a deacon) is the Final Blessing. The Final Blessing can take three forms. All three forms begin with the exchange, Priest: “The Lord be with you.” People: “And with your spirit.” In the simple blessing the priest says: “May almighty God bless you: the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.” The priest makes a sign of the cross over the people as he invokes the Trinity. A bishop makes the cross three times. The people reply: “Amen.” For the Prayer over the People and the Solemn Blessing, the deacon, or in his absence, the priest, says after the initial exchange: “Bow down for the Blessing,” and all bow their heads. In the Prayer over the People, the priest says one prayer, to which the people respond: “Amen.” You will notice that the Sundays and Weekdays of Lent have a prescribed Prayer over the People. The use is optional, but my approach is that if there is something optional that is specific for the day, I use it. The Solemn Blessing has three invocations, each followed by the congregation’s “Amen.” The Roman Missal provides Solemn Blessing for many major feasts (Christmas, Epiphany, Easter, Pentecost, etc.); for liturgical seasons (Advent, Easter time, Ordinary Time etc.); and for some saint’s feasts (Mary, Peter and Paul, other Apostles, All Saints). The Prayer over the People and the Solemn Blessing conclude with the priest saying as he makes the sign of the cross over the people: May the blessing of Almighty God, the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, come down on you and remain with you forever. To which the people respond: “Amen.” There is also a special form of the Solemn Blessing that is used only by a bishop. It is more of a dialog with the people: Bishop: “Blessed be the name of the Lord.” People: “Now and for ever.” Bishop: “Our help is in the name of the Lord.” People: “Who made heaven and earth.” Bishop: “May almighty God bless you, (making the Sign of the Cross over the people three times) the Father, and the Son, and the Holy Spirit.” People: “Amen.”