The Mass as the Model All Prayer

“When Jesus was born in Bethlehem of Judea, in the days of King Herod, behold, magi from the east arrived in Jerusalem, saying, ‘Where is the newborn king of the Jews? We saw his star at its rising and have come to do him homage.’”—Matthew 2:1-2 Dear Parishioners: Those wise men went out in search of Jesus. Though we usually think of them as presenting their gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh, but do we realize that they were given much more, an encounter with their salvation prepared in sight of all the peoples, a light for revelation to the Gentiles and the glory for the people. Amid our gift giving at this time, we are reminded this Christmas of the gift of God given to us in Jesus Christ. Where is the newborn King? is a question asked by everyone. All of us are looking for something more in life, for something greater than ourselves, even if we don’t recognize that we are. Eventually, the things of this world are not enough, do not satisfy, do not give the answers, and so we look beyond them to the One who created them, the One we know as the Babe in the manger. We are invited to take some time out in this season to ask ourselves, Where is the newborn King in my life? Do we recognize Him as the One in whom we find peace on Earth and goodwill to others? Do we see Him as the promised of ages, the King of Kings and Lord of Lords? Where is the newborn King? He is in the Eucharist, the Scriptures, our service to those in need, and in the people gathered for worship. If you are one of the parish stalwarts, I invite you to deepen your faith. If you are visiting Holy Spirit this Christmas, I hope you’ll be back again. If you haven’t been to Church for a while, I hope you’ll reconnect with your faith. If you are looking for a spiritual home, I hope you find one here. Christmas tells us the answer to the question Where is the newborn King?-- He is here, because He is Emmanuel, God with us. A blessed Christmas to you and yours! Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor 

“Incline your ear, LORD, and answer me,/for I am poor and oppressed./Preserve my life, for I am devoted;/save your servant who trusts in you./You are my God;/be gracious to me, Lord;/to you I call all the day./Gladden the soul of your servant;/to you, Lord, I lift up my soul./Lord, you are good and forgiving,/most merciful to all who call on you./LORD, hear my prayer;/listen to my cry for help./ On the day of my distress I call to you,/for you will answer me.”—Psalm 86:1-7. Dear Parishioners: ACTS. S is for Supplication . This is not a prayer of greeting—that would be, S’up?lication . Supplication prayer is prayer that asks or petitions for something. This kind of prayer is very much misunderstood. I believe many people think prayer of supplication to be a cheap, lazy, selfish, or inferior form of prayer, because we want something and are asking for something to be done for us. I would counter that we use prayer of supplication at Mass with the Universal Prayers. Even the Our Father contains “give us this day our daily bread,” a prayer of supplication. That’s a pretty good placement for a so-called cheap, lazy, selfish, or inferior form of prayer. What I believe is most central to prayers of supplication is that faith that God can do what we ask. God can make a difference. God can change things, even when they seem unchangeable and dire. Prayer of supplication has at its core a trust and faith in God as well as an acknowledgement of His power, providence and majesty. Prayer of supplication is anything but! Prayer of supplication is a perfectly acceptable form of prayer, as long as we are asking for the right things, or better, that our prayer is sincere, that we really mean it, and that what we want will truly benefit ourselves, another, or our greater family, parish, locale, or world. We can ask that we win the lottery or that the Browns win (the lottery might be more probable,) and if the prayer isn’t something that God wants to give to give us—for reasons only He knows—then the prayer will be unanswered, but it is still prayer. There is no bad way to pray, so it’s time—it always is—to get our ACTS together. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor

“Have mercy on me, God, in accord with your merciful love;/in your abundant compassion blot out my transgressions./Thoroughly wash away my guilt;/and from my sin cleanse me./For I know my transgressions;/my sin is always before me./Against you, you alone have I sinned;/I have done what is evil in your eyes/So that you are just in your word,/and without reproach in your judgment./Behold, I was born in guilt/in sin my mother conceived me./Behold, you desire true sincerity;/and secretly you teach me wisdom/Cleanse me with hyssop,/that I may be pure;/wash me, and I will be whiter than snow./You will let me hear gladness and joy;/the bones you have crushed will rejoice/Turn away your face from my sins;/blot out all my iniquities./A clean heart create for me, God/renew within me a steadfast spirit./Do not drive me from before your face/nor take from me your holy spirit./Restore to me the gladness of your salvation;/uphold me with a willing spirit./I will teach the wicked your ways,/that sinners may return to you./Rescue me from violent bloodshed, God, my saving God,/and my tongue will sing joyfully of your justice./Lord, you will open my lips;/and my mouth will proclaim your praise./For you do not desire sacrifice or I would give it;/a burnt offering you would not accept/My sacrifice, O God, is a contrite spirit;/a contrite, humbled heart, O God, you will not scorn./Treat Zion kindly according to your good will;/build up the walls of Jerusalem./Then you will desire the sacrifices of the just,/burnt offering and whole offerings;/then they will offer up young bulls on your altar.”—Psalm 51 Dear Parishioners: ACTS. C is for Contrition , prayer of sorrow for our sins and asking for God’s forgiveness. The classic Catholic prayer for this is the Act of Contrition. One of the popular versions of this prayer proclaims, O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended Thee, and I detest all my sins, because I dread the loss of heaven, and the pains of hell; but most of all because they offend Thee, my God, Who are all good and deserving of all my love. This says something about our sorrow. It is not a sorrow that comes from a fear of punishment, but it is a sorrow that comes from offending the God who has created us, redeemed us, and sustains us. We admit, God is good (all the time) and we are not (at least sometimes.) Prayer of contrition requires us to be honest enough to admit we have failed God and also acknowledges God deserves to receive our sorrow and contrition. In the Liturgy of the Hours, the Church’s prayer, at Night Prayer, an examination of conscience and a prayer of contrition begins the prayer. I encourage everyone to follow this laudable practice to end each day with a prayer of contrition. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor 

“Hallelujah!/Praise God in his holy sanctuary;/give praise in the mighty dome of heaven./Give praise for his mighty deeds,/praise him for his great majesty./Give praise with blasts upon the horn,/praise him with harp and lyre./Give praise with tambourines and dance,/praise him with strings and pipes./Give praise with crashing cymbals,/praise him with sounding cymbals./Let everything that has breath/give praise to the LORD!/Hallelujah!”—Psalm 150 Dear Parishioners: ACTS. We begin with A, for Adoration. This is the prayer where we praise God not for what He does, but for whom He is. This is probably the form of prayer with which more people are least familiar. We are used to coming to God with requests for something to be granted—even forgiveness. We might come back to God to say thanks. We have to be honest that all those forms of prayer are about us getting something, be it asking or thanking for what we want granted. Adoration is just praising God for being God, Holy, Mighty, Eternal, Ineffable, and all the other attributes of God. This kind of prayer is focused on God with less reference to us. I admit my prejudices, what I find lacking in much “praise music” is that it is often still about what we do for God, “I praise you, God, for you are wonderful.” I admit this kind of music works at adoration of the Blessed Sacrament and festivals of praise but is not good Mass music. Adoration prayer seems less natural to us as human beings, but God deserves this kind of prayer. That is one of the great things about spending time in adoration of the Blessed Sacrament: We can just sit in awe and wonder. It can be pure adoration of God for being God. This type of prayer doesn’t even require us to say something or anything. We can just be with Him in the Eucharist. Just giving our time and attention to God is a form of prayer; giving God our time says that He is more important than the busyness or idleness of our lives. That is true praise given to God—not for what He does but for whom He is. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor 

“Pray as you can, not as you can't.”—Dom Chapman Dear Parishioners: Last week I answered a question about prayer. I thought this would be a topic worth unpacking, since we are all called to be people of prayer. When talking about prayer we can remember ACTS. This isn’t the book of the Bible, it is an acronym to remember the basic types of prayer. ACTS is: Adoration: Praising God not for what He does, but for whom He is. Contrition: Telling God that we are sorry for our sins. Thanksgiving: Thanking God for what he has done for us and in us in our lives. Supplication: Seeking God’s assistance for ourselves or others. Whether we are doing the public prayer of the Church or our own private prayer, these are the ways or the how we usually pray. ACTS is what we pray. Some commentators hold that all the ACTS should be present each time we pray. I don’t necessarily agree. There are going to be some times that we include all, some times we include only two or three, and some times that we just pray with one type of prayer. It may be that at a particular time in life one or more of the types of prayer seem more appropriate or fitting. Go with what works or is working for you. What is important is that you pray! In future Pastor’s Columns, I will explore each of these types in greater detail. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor 

“The best bit of advice I ever received about how to pray was this: keep it simple, keep it real, keep it up.”―Pete Greig, How to Pray: A Simple Guide for Normal People Dear Parishioners: When I asked for questions to be answered in the Pastor’s Column , I received the following: How do we pray? As an altar boy in my youth, I would accompany the priest when he served mass at the house for the Carmelite nuns. I wondered to myself “do they spend the day saying the Our Father, Hail Mary etc. over and over?” Surely they do more than that. As an adult now I pray daily but sometimes have a hard time on what to say and what I’m praying for or about and usually end up saying an Our Father instead. Am I being selfish to pray “especially” for someone/thing as they are no more deserving as anyone else? There is quite a bit here. Nuns, especially cloistered nuns do spend their days in prayer. The anchor of their prayer is Liturgy of the Hours , which is available to everyone. (The app iBreviary is an easy access to these prayers.) Admittedly, that’s not all they do, they have daily tasks to do, just like everyone else. They have the ability—I would say luxury—to spend more time than the average person in prayer. They also do private prayer, often praying for requested intentions. I imagine other than prescribed prayers, each nun prays as she finds meaningful. We do our best in prayer. Their life is theirs, unless you’re one of them, it is not your life. Most of us have more time on tasks (work, family, school, home) and less time for prayer. A parent with a couple of young children or a person with a full-time job may not have the ability to pray in the way the nuns do, and that’s ok. Still, we all have the ability to find some time for prayer each day, no one is that busy, When you have trouble knowing what to say in prayer, just say what you can and know that God knows what we need and for what we should ask, even if we don’t. As St. Paul writes to the Romans: In the same way, the Spirit too comes to the aid of our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but the Spirit itself intercedes with inexpressible groanings. (8:26) It is not selfish to pray especially for some people, it is not that they are more deserving of God’s help, but they are more important to us. The “especially” prayer is asking for something for everyone but remembering the intentions important to us. I often say that sometimes we need to pray not so that God hears us, but that we hear ourselves. We need to know we are praying for those close to us because it expresses our relationship with them. Again, even if we pray wrongly, which is hard to do, (unless asking for evil on someone or asking God that my team wins—the outcome of a sporting event has little to do with the salvation of ourselves or others), God knows what we truly need. The bottom line is: pray and let God sort it out! Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor 

“ Hence the Lord's day is the original feast day, and it should be proposed to the piety of the faithful and taught to them so that it may become in fact a day of joy and of freedom from work. Other celebrations, unless they be truly of greatest importance, shall not have precedence over the Sunday which is the foundation and kernel of the whole liturgical year.” – Vatican II, Sacrosanctum Concilium, The Constitution on the Sacred Liturgy Dear Parishioners: It is hard to believe that we are in the last weeks of the Liturgical Year. There are thirty-four Sundays in Ordinary Time, and this week is the thirty-first (wasn’t the 16th Sunday two weeks ago?!)…well, it would have been the thirty-first if The Commemoration of the Faithful Departed , aka “ All Souls’ Day ” did not happen on a Sunday this year. This celebration is important enough in the Church calendar, that when it falls on a Sunday, it is celebrated in place of the Sunday of Ordinary Time. We only have to wait a week for this to happen again; next week The Dedication of the Cathedral of St. John the Lateran in Rome, which is celebrated on November 9 th , and it supplants the Sunday of Ordinary Time. 2025 had a number of feasts and solemnities that were celebrated on Sunday: The Presentation of the Lord (February 2 nd ), Saints Peter and Paul (June 29 th ), The Exultation of the Cross (September 14 th ), The C ommemoration of the Faithful Departed (November 2 nd ), The Dedication of the St. John the Lateran (November 6 th ); and the Church year always closes with The Feast of Jesus Christ, King of the Universe taking the place of the 34 th Sunday in Ordinary Time. The Church Calendar of 2025 had what I believe is the most possible celebrations of other feasts and solemnities on Sundays. It is good that not just the daily Mass goers get to experience these celebrations; these show the depth and variety of celebrations in our Church year. Speaking of replacements, with Julia Rutkowski departing this week, I am looking for someone or some ones—it can be a group of people—to take the lead on coordinating the kitchen hall when there are events like luncheons after a funeral. The task includes keeping track of the paper and plastic items that are used, alerting the staff to cleaning and other issues that need to be addressed. This is an important, but not greatly time-consuming, probably averaging a few hours a month. If you have an interest in helping in this way, please contact the parish office. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor

“ Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end.”—Semisonic Dear Parishioners:  Julia Rutkowski , our Business and Operations Manager, has taken a position at another parish. Julia will still be with us into the first week of November. Since Julia came to Holy Spirit in April of 2022, she has done a great deal of good work in updating the parish facilities and shoring up the parish finances. She leaves the parish grounds and buildings and books in a much better condition than she found them. She has also found some cost-cutting opportunities for the parish. We are thankful for the work she has done for Holy Spirit. Finding a new business manager is now a priority for me. I have discussed the position with the Holy Spirit Finance Council and published it on the Diocese of Cleveland jobs available website. Some of Julia’s previous tasks for the care of property are the role of Tony Smith, the Holy Spirit’s and St. Joseph's Multi-Campus Facilities Director. Still, our upcoming renovations and the diocese’s capital campaign, it makes sense that the job is a full-time position. We look forward to having someone in our finance office soon. But now, we say thank you, God bless, and Godspeed to Julia as her service to Holy Spirit comes to an end and she begins new service to the Church elsewhere. Any notes or other expressions of appreciations for Julia can be dropped off at the office. Sincerely, Rev. Charles F. Strebler Pastor

“ The priest is not and must not be a civil servant of the Church. Above all the priest is a man who lives for the spirit for God. This being the case the Seminary is the place where he learns 'to be with Him.’”—Pope St. John Paul II Dear Parishioners: Next Sunday, we celebrate Priesthood Sunday. As has been the custom here at Holy Spirit, we will be inviting a seminarian to speak at our Masses. We welcome Brent Feorene . Brent is a student at Borromeo Seminary, the college-level seminary of the Diocese of Cleveland with St. Mary Seminary being the graduate-level seminary. Brent is from our neighboring parish, St. Ladislas in Westlake. Last year he was one of the first seminarians to experience the propaedeutic year, a year of prayer that includes a casual walk though Spain as the Propadudes (as they have come to be known) walked the Camino de Santiago, a 550-mile pilgrimage. As challenging as that is, the road to the priesthood is no less challenging. The seminary is not just about education like most college and universities. What makes it different is the seminary is about formation. Pope St. John Paul II in his Apostolic Exhortation Pastores Dabo Vobis identified four “pillars” of seminary formation: Intellectual Formation : Coming to know the mysteries of the Faith so as the be effective in ministry, especially in preaching. Spiritual Formation : Preparing a man for a deeper relationship with Jesus and to enter into the life of the Trinity as to live a life of sacrificial love. Human Formation : Growing in integrity, maturity, empathy, and other human virtues. Pastoral Formation : Forming men to be ordained leaders in the Church. This is ultimately the integration of all the pillars of formation. The process can take almost a decade of formation. (I, myself, spent nine years in the seminary from starting as a Borromeo freshman forty years ago [1985] to ordination thirty-one years ago [1994]. Please pray for our seminarians as they travel the long, at times not easy, but at other times joyful and fun, path to the priesthood. You can see this school year’s Cleveland Seminarians on the boards in the narthex. We also have some smaller versions of the posters and holy cards that you can take to remind to pray for these men.