The Ways to Receive Communion
A person may receive on the tongue or in the hand--the Church expresses no preference for one or the other.
If receiving in the hand, recall the words of St. Cyril of Jerusalem,
When you approach, take care not to do so with your hand stretched out and your fingers open or apart, but rather place your left hand as a throne beneath your right, as befits one who is about to receive the King.
This should remind us of whom we are receiving and not do it in a casual or unthinking manner. If our hands are a notepad, inked with reminders—the stains of work being something very different—we ought to receive on the tongue. If something prevents us from presenting both hands to make a throne and reverently receive, perhaps we receive on the tongue.
The communicant can approach one of the Communion ministers who has the cup. The dialog is like that when receiving the host. The minister says, “The Blood of Christ.” The communicant responds, “Amen.” The cup is given to the communicant, who takes a sip (not a drink), then hands it back to the Communion minister, who wipes the chalice lip with a purificator and then hands it on to the next communicant.
We receive the Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity of Christ in even a particle of the Host or a drop of the Precious Blood. It is not absolutely necessary to receive the Host and cup, but it is a fuller sign of our doing what Jesus asked, when He said, after giving the disciples the bread and the wine, “Do this in memory of Me.” The ideal is that we receive the Host and cup at each Mass, but we are not deprived of a part of Jesus if we do not. It is possible for someone to receive the Precious Blood and not the Host.
Intinction is when the Host is dipped into the Precious Blood and then given to the communicant. This was the way I received my First Communion in 1974. Intinction is still a valid way of receiving Communion in the Church. It fell into disuse when the practice of Communion in the hand became widespread. This manner of receiving, by its nature, demands reception on the tongue. Self-intinction is never permitted by those who are not priests. (If you see a priest doing it, he’s probably got a cold or something of the sort.) A communicant cannot take a Host and proceeded to the cup and dip the Host into the cup. This goes against the take-bless-break-give nature of the Eucharist. It replaces the “give” with a “take.”
